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Learn How to Attract Women

Posted on May 24 2017 by OBlogger in attraction, attract women

Maybe most guys who want to learn how to attract women assume it will be easy and quick. After all, they can just watch how a successful guy do it and copy what he's doing.

Unfortunately, these same guys discover that it's not as easy at it looks. So they quickly change their mind and give up.

The issues with trying to attract women is you are subconsciously doing it wrong. The key is in the word trying. You have to remove that word first and learn how to attract women without thinking about it. You have to use a certain way of thinking.

Some guys who want to attract women try this stuff and get in a situation where it's not working for them. Then try to force it. They think about the specific steps and try to make it work.

When you find yourself interacting with women and think about what you specifically need to do to attract her, you are putting yourself at a disadvantage. To get to the point where you can do it naturally without much thought, you have to familiarize yourself with what you need to do before you even get in the interaction. Simply put. You have to make preparations beforehand so that your conversation are happening without you constantly trying to steer it.

Some guys may find this easy. They are what's often called naturals because they can be successful with women without even knowing what they're doing. To get where they are, you have to adopt their mindset and way of things.

You'll have to work on yourself. You'll have to do massive amounts of work on yourself. Following are some of the main things you need to focus on improving.

One of those things is your attitude. It is important to have a positive attitude. It is one of those things that determine if you can be able to attract women. And the right attitude, if you want to attract women, is to be indifferent about the situation you will face. Don't think about anything that might happen during the interaction, what you should be doing, how to respond to her, how she responds to you or if you get the girl. Don't care about how the interaction will go.

If you want to have a strong mindset that even the most brutal rejection from women can't shake, you have to be able to define who you are and no one else. You believe that any woman would be lucky to have you. You can't fake this. You have to internalize to make attracting women possible.

Another important thing is to have your body language congruent with what you say and what you do. You have to be able to do it like it's natural. You can try to consciously adjust your body language but that won't make it natural. Again, you have to internalize it. A woman should be able to see immediately that you are different from all the other chumps. If you can be confident, your body language will mostly fix itself to make you look confident.

To make things permanent and make things come naturally, the only way is to do them repeatedly. It's not like you wake up one morning and you already have a new set of skills. It just doesn't work that way. It may be hard at first and you may fail most of the time. But after some time, you'll get a feel for it and becomes second nature to you, just like riding a bike.

You may find it a little disappointing not having those little steps you can take to attract women. Don't worry, this process will take some time. You can't take shortcuts. First you have to learn it consciously and then be good at it.

Attracting women is not something you do for just one night, it becomes who you are. You can't force it. If you are really serious about learning how to attract women, you should first work on yourself.